"I loved my friend
He went away from me
There's nothing more to say
The poem ends
As softly as it began-
I loved my friend."
-Langston Hughes
Dear All,
This is probably the last post I'm going to make for my Roman adventure. :( sad face. But, for those of you who read it, thank you for taking the time to read a little bit about my summer. It makes me really happy to see that I have over a thousand views, stunned that there was that many people who wanted to read what I had to wrote, and embarrassed because I don't think I'm a good writer at all, so I apologize for all of the incorrect grammar and awkward times.
And now for the post...
My last few days at John Cabot University were a blur, filled with packing, finals preparation, and trying to squeeze in as many things possible that I forgot to do. But, there wasn't a ton of goodbyes from my fellow classmates and friends... and I'm happy about that. I hate those times when you know you're most likely never going to see another person again, and you try and come up with a few quick words that sum up all your memories with them, how much you're going to miss them (or not), and you wish them all the best of luck with their lives... it's awkward, and it can never be done in the right way.
There is no possible way to say goodbye to someone whom you have shared a summer in rome, whom you're (possibly) never going to see again- it doesn't happen. There is no way to explain that underlying bond that you will always have with another person or persons. So you just don't do it. You leave your bond the way it is. You and them both know how you feel about the other, you know your memories, you know that you were apart of each others lives, and you know that you have been apart of an experience that the other will never forget. So you leave it how it is. That's the way I like it, and that's the easiest way to (wordlessly) say goodbye.
Both of my final exams went very well!
First of all, my final for my pinhole photography was an art show, and not an actual exam. With the help of Bill, I chose the best of my pictures, found that they were all similar in one way- which is crazy cause I didn't even plan that- and framed and hung them. We were supposed to share the evening with the digital photography class, but the teacher had to bail, so it was just my class who did the showing. It was nice, two of the girls went out and got wine and snacks for everyone, we all explained our photos and what we liked about them, and we finally got to see what our classmates were doing for the last few weeks.
My Ancient Eats final was also really cool. Again, not a written exam. We did have to write a final paper. I wrote mine like a letter to my parents, explaining some of the most popular foods of the Mayan culture; which were chocolate, avocados, tortillas, a type of very spicy salsa, coffee, and a few others. We also had to write a journal about one of our readings or on a place we visited- Mt. Testaccio, Ostia, Pompeii, or the museum. I wrote mine on Testaccio, because it was my favorite place we went to. But for our actual final, Karl replaced our written final with an oral talk we would have in class. He basically gave us this prompt about having to explain why "foodstuffs" is important in history and learning about culture; along with many other things we had to talk about; and we had to prepare an answer for him. So, not only did I learn a ton during the class itself, but I learned a lot to prepare for the final question, and also during the talk we had about the question. It was awesome.
If I haven't already said, these two classes were my favorite part about this whole trip. Even counting the trip to Tuscany and the Almafi Coast trip, the food, the shopping, the wine, the sights, the architecture, nothing beats learning about something so interesting that you can't stop learning. And my teachers. These two men had some influence that many teachers before them rarely had. They actually pushed me to want to learn and (and for the photography class) spend many, many, MANY, hours outside of class trying to practice what I learned from them.
My last night in Rome was also a blur because it went so fast. I had one last dinner at Tony's... the very popular resturant students went because it was really good, portions were huge, and Tony always gave free stuff- bread, desert, wine, even sometimes champagne or limoncello. Then a few friends and I went out trying to meet up with the majority of the JCU kids. We always ended up in the same place, right in Trastevere (where I lived), between these two places that had like a hundred different shots for only a euro, and this other place called G-bar- which I hated because it was so tiny and hot and the bartenders were super creepy. But this shots bar was very funny because they were all named after ridiculous stuff-- everything from people's names, sexual references, swear words, and Harry Potter characters- those I stayed away from because they were almost always lit on fire...
But, I will refrain from giving out any exact names because now that I think of it, they are very inappropriate to write on here. Sorry!!
Then a large group of us went to Campo de Fiori to really see everyone... all the Americans go there because every place is usually dirty, cheap, and filled with creeps - kinda like a frat house. BURN!
...sorry about that.
Because it was still sort-of early out, some of my friends were going to try and see some sites, the trevi fountain, forum, birthday cake museum, and finally end at the colosseum to see the sunrise, but I didn't go. My two best friends were leaving around 7am and I wanted to be up to see them off, so I decided to go back with them early so I actually got some sleep.
I spent the entire next morning packing up all my things, riding in a cab to the Hilton hotel attached to the airport, and relaxing. However, I figured out my last ten euro was stolen by this jerk, so now I'm basically in starvation mode till Tuesday. No worries though! Because my mom and dad travel so much, I have access to the executive suite, which has free beverages all day, snacks, and at dinner time, at least on warm dish. Hellooooo unlimited espresso and fruit :) I have never loved oranges so much!
Other than that, I've been working out, swimming, and watching TV, trying to pass the time quickly. I can't wait to get home!
I miss my family and my friends, ice in all drinks, free water at dinner, air conditioning, paved roads, driving, food options, breakfast foods, speaking English and being understood, being able to wear workout cloths in public and not getting stared at, not being stared at or whistled at because I'm American!, common courtesy, and soooo many other things that I usually take for granted in the states. I just really miss America.
Even with all that, I'm extremely happy and grateful that I had the opportunity to travel and study in Italy! It has taught me so many lessons, I've learned so many things, I've found something that I'm now becoming obsessed with because I love it so much, and I've found love... HAHAHA yeah right, Fooled ya!
I'm going to be a little cheesy here, but it has to be done publicly. THANK YOU MUM AND DAD!!!!!!!!! Without you guys, and the support of the rest of my family and close friends, I wouldn't have been able to do this or make it through this experience. You have given me an opportunity that not a lot of people get to do, and from this experience, I think I've grown more, become more responsible, more careful about what I do, more respectful, than before, of other cultures and the way some have to live, and in so many other ways. I'm a different, stronger person because of you. My thanks is never ending, and I promise I'll pay you back-- I know "one free hug" coupons won't get me out of this one ;)
So, like I've said before, I'm not going to say any major goodbyes. I'm going to end this post the way I always do, so the moment is not ruined, and so we can move on with the secret bond that you, my unknown follower, and I, have shared these past 5 weeks...
Molte Benedizioni



























